There's a solution for that but I guess it's too simple and rayciss.
I got hauled to the gray bar hotel once over a domestic violence. In actuality, it was me who called the PoPo (the ex lost her shit and was throwing things at me, as clothes iron) so I called 911.
Unfortunately in most states there are mandatory DV arrest statutes. Rather than haul off a woman with 4 small children, I got to take the ride.
I just called a bail bondsman that night, he took me to an ATM, I paid the 10% and that was that. Changes dropped due to " lack of evidence and lack of interest".
Kinda sucked being in the back of a Crown Vic instead of driving it.