Originally Posted by
MineEvolved
OK, coupla things....
First off, I see a lot of this, particularly from the ladies. They like to cherry pick that 'one' nigger that ain't like the rest, to assuage their consciences about being a 'racist hater'. Lots of people like Candace Owens for example, because she'll take her fellow niggers to the mat as quick as she will a brain-dead white lefty enabler. And she is both a conservative and a well-spoken one. SCOTUS Judge Clarence Thomas might be another people would cite. It happens. I met blacks who I felt would be quality people, but it happens so rarely that it doesn't really affect my own calculus about world niggardry. That one-in-one-hundred-thousand magic nigger just isn't enough to sway the more experienced among us. My wife gives me a ration of shit now and again the way I go on about them sometimes, not because she disagrees in principal, it just sometimes offends her Catholic sensibilities. I know my wife is more important to me than the niggers ever will be, so I've learned when to just let it go. Tomorrow is another day.
Second...she's a girlfriend. Until she's your spouse, this shouldn't be such a big deal. All you NEED to do is ensure she isn't spending her time with, or sucking off, one of those magic nogs she think's is the cat's ass. If you've been with her since 2016, and she's railing about your 'racism', well, one of two things is going on. One, you're just too loud and aggressive with your viewpoint, and she's frustrated (see again what I said about me and my wife), or, she's been drinking the Kool-Aid under your nose all this time, and just nodding her head in typical, go-along-to-get-along fashion. And believe it or not, the older (again, primarily women, no offense to the ladies here) gals are more interested in feathering a nest for later years than they are in engaging in political arguments of any kind, so running it into the ground isn't going to have the desired effect here, I wouldn't think.
Either way, you have a problem that needs to be examined, and frankly, it ain't the nigger(s). She's either on board with your views (pretty sure she's clear on WHAT your views are after 6 years), or she ain't. Or, you're just beating it into the ground (which is possible, if we're being honest here), which doesn't really help in the long run. As an objective observer, I'd ask, 'is this someone you want to spend you life with, or indoctrinate'? You can't do other peoples' thinking for them. That's why we're IN the fucking mess we are now, too many people offloading their critical thinking onto someone else. All you can do is make her own her position. Take a deep breath and give it a think.